How to Know If a Girl Loves You

How to know if a girl loves you? It’s actually quite easy. You just have to know what the signs are. Women who are in love behave in a certain way. Once you know the right things to look for, you’ll be amazed that you never noticed them before. In fact, you might look back and slap yourself on the forehead when you realize how many girls were in love with you before. Read on for the definitive guide on how to know if a girl loves you.

Her Friends Know All About You

When a girl loves you, her friends know all about you. In fact, she probably goes on and on about you more than they even want to hear about. Still, they’re going to be happy for her that she’s in love. They’re also going to know all kinds of details about you, both things that are going on between you and the girl who is in love with you, as well as other personal details that no second-degree acquaintance would ever know. Examples include your favorite foods, stories about things that happened to you at work and basically anything else that a woman who is in love with you would notice and think is important, even if no one else did.

She Chases After You

The Art of Charm is all about teaching you how to get girls to chase after you. One way to get a girl to chase after you? Get her to fall in love. When a woman falls in love with a man, few things are going to keep her from getting what she wants. Women are very purpose-driven and resilient in this regard. If she’s making it known that you’re the man that she wants, both in word and in deed, it’s a pretty clear method of how to know if a girl loves you. Women are generally not so forward in chasing after men that they aren’t in love with.

She Wants More of Your Time

The Saturday night date isn’t enough anymore. She wants more and more of your time. Maybe she wants to come by after work to make you dinner. Maybe she wants to meet for coffee during your lunch break. The specifics don’t really matter. The point is this: If the girl is always looking for more and more of your time, this can be a sign that she’s in love with you or on her way there. After all, if she were only casually interested, she wouldn’t feel the need to go for more and more of your time.

 

7 Tips on How to Be a Better Girlfriend – Learn How You Could Be a Better Girlfriend

Every once in a while a girl will meet a great guy – you know, one that ticks all the boxes. Smart, kind, educated, tall, financially responsible, resourceful, handsome, not forgetting a great personality to wrap up such an almost-perfect package. In such instances, it is natural to feel the pressure to ‘step up’ your game and flair to be the best wife or girlfriend to this superb-out-of-this-world guy. Right?

Well, if this describes you – even remotely – here’s how you can be a better girlfriend to your all-deserving partner.

1. Help him Fix his Problems – Stop Trying to Fix him

We live in a day and age where its extremely rare to come across an individual who isn’t grappling with one issue or another- be it personal, financial, emotional, physical or social. Such is the kind of technical world that we live in – one that is punctuated with a myriad of dicey scenarios and un-foldings. As you may know already, even the most seemingly loving, attentive and adorable of boyfriends/husbands will have a couple of faults sticking out like a sore thumb.

It could be a small bad habit that he’s been unable to shake off or a long-time buddy that you don’t necessarily find likable. We are only human. However, your maternal instincts imply that you’re more inclined to want to ‘fix’ him rather than aid a helping hand in solving his problems. Which, of course, explains why most men often complain of their nagging or ever-complaining better-halves.

Be different; men will naturally appreciate genuine support but rigidly resent any attempts – however sincere – to change him. Let him be, instead, focus on helping him improve the state of both of your lives.

2. Compliment Him

It’s surprising how most women are oblivious to the fact that men love been complimented as much, if not as often, as we do. And this is especially true if he goes the extra mile to hit the gym, stay in top shape and complement this by dressing presentably. So, don’t shy away from telling him occasionally of how dashing he looks with that tuxedo on. Or how sexy his biceps look as he steps out of the shower. Even better, nothing is as more attractive as a woman who can spot beyond the obvious physical – such as his intelligence or kindheartedness.

3. Subtlety Show Him Love in Public – Catch Him Unawares too!

Although men are not naturally emotional beings, this does not necessarily imply that they don’t appreciate occasional subtle romantic gestures every once-in-a-while. It can be as simple as a naughty thigh graze to as open as a midstroll kiss. Either way, you pleasantly surprised at the beam of happiness that lights up his face when he knows that you’re thinking about some of the most intimate moments that you two privately share even in public.

4. Trust him – or At least Try not to Act so Suspicious

Well, in as much as we as women are naturally jealous beings, it pays to exercise some restraint and give the man some credit. Truth be told, men are instinctively wired to hate insecure and suspicious wives or girlfriends.

You have to train your mind how to trust him; in fact, if you cannot trust the man, then you’re not with the right person, to begin with. So, instead of rummaging through his phone or constantly questioning his whereabouts, it would do more harm than good to have some faith in what you share together, for starters.

5. Your Relationship Shouldn’t be the Focus of your Life

As a modern woman, it is helpful and even healthy to have a life apart from your romantic relationship. In any case, if you didn’t know this is actually what attracted him to you in the first place. Therefore, don’t be the damsel that fall head over heels in love with a man and loses her social, professional or religious circle. Simply put, maintain your usual focus.

Have a side hustle/hobby/pastime to occupy yourself regularly. Also, don’t forget or cast away your immediate friends/family that you originally had before you met him. Above all, expand your knowledge base by learning new things on a daily basis. This is primarily what makes a woman irresistible.

6. Honesty and Faithfulness Pays

Nothing will wreck any relationship – regardless of how seriously it is – faster than infidelity or traits ( tell-tale signs ) of infidelity. Speaking of which, reserving sex for him is not enough. Go a step further and make it succinctly clear to all your close friends or colleagues (especially your male pals) that you’re in a serious romantic relationship with so-and-so.

This is a necessary red-tape measure to avoid situations/gestures from your closest circle that could be misconstrued for unfaithfulness by your boyfriend. What’s more, if he feels that he can trust you with his life, then there’s no stopping him from giving the world to you.

7. Shower Him with Gifts Every Once in a While

Just like compliments, women at times tend to forget that men also secretly love surprises, gifts, and romantic getaways. It doesn’t have to be a daily affair – you can limit these to some of his special days such as his birthday or significant holiday seasons such as Xmas and New Year. All in all, an impromptu gift – can be as plain as a pair of shoes or nice belt – out of the blues is guaranteed to work wonders in improving the positive outlook of your relationship.

 

13 Things You Need to Know Before Dating

Long gone are the 1950’s era of romance. Boy likes girl. Boy gives girl flowers. Boy meets the parents. Girl meets his parents. They get married happily ever after. Nowadays, dating is much more complicated. Careers, finance, mixed families through divorce, social media, internet, etc.

While the dynamics of dating have changed in many ways thanks to feminism and social media, you would be surprised at how little some things haven’t changed in terms of what men and women are looking for in a partner. While it is now common for women to work outside of the home and cheating is more rampant than ever thanks to technological advances in communication, men and women are still attracted to many of the same qualities they were 60 years ago.

From personal experience and through surveying hundreds of men and women, I have discovered some very inconvenient truths about the hearts of men and women.

1. Men and women are rarely “just friends”: That’s right! When men and women spend a lot of time communicating, biology and science says that one of the parties will probably develop a secret sexual attraction. The male counterpart will usually be the culprit, as men are more sexually driven than most women. Men will be “just friends” with a woman if that’s all she truly desires, but be rest assured, a man will wait patiently for his chance to strike! While there are some exceptions, generally, men and women can’t be “just friends”. If you’re in a relationship, it is very practical to be jealous of your partner spending ample amounts of energy and time communicating with members of the opposite sex who aren’t you! We were biologically designed to mate with each other after all! While it is tempting to lash out at your partner for texting or spending time with members of the opposite sex, it is best to sit down and discuss what is appropriate and what isn’t. If you can’t come to an agreement, it may be a clear-sign that you don’t share the same values in order to build a proper relationship. Perhaps your husband loves to have lunch with his female secretary, while you think it’s an invitation for temptation, he sees it as “innocent”. But be warned, whatever you ask of your partner, you should be able to hold yourself to the same rules and standards! If your husband or boyfriend is spending large amounts of time texting or hanging out with another woman, unless it is purely for business purposes you can almost guarantee that he is sexually attracted to her. While women often keep many “guy friends” on the side to use as “emotional tampons” to vent their frustrations on or to keep around as “back-ups” in case their relationship doesn’t work out. Many surveys show that 60% of men and women have “back-up” lovers. A shocking statistic that really makes you wonder if men and women can truly be monogamous.

2. Men are more shallow in terms of appearance: While there are always exceptions to the rule, men are generally more caught up in a woman’s physical appearance than a women is with a man’s appearance. 9 times out of 10, a man will choose the supermodel woman over the plain looking career-woman any day of the week. However, as a man matures, his preferences may balance out. Instead of going for the perfect 10 with a bad attitude, he will find more satisfaction with the “7 or 8” who is more well-rounded, dependable and nurturing. Men biologically seek out women who are physically attractive as a way to carry on healthy genes in their children.

3. Women are gold-diggers, kinda?: There is a common misconception that women are only after a man’s resources and income. While it is true that women are definitely attracted to wealth and status, that isn’t to say that a woman would not date a man who is poor, so long as he is actively pursuing goals. Women are attracted to driven men who are determined to build a life for themselves and their family. This goes back to our caveman (cavewoman) instincts. A man who is building a career for himself can be seen a potential provider and protector of the family. While there are some modern career women who prefer to be the leaders of their family, once women have children, they will almost always desire to stay home with their children while the father provides. It’s a natural evolutionary cycle.

4. Do men like feminists?: If you look at any typical feminist: She has a career mindset, dyed purple hair, nose ring, loud, says fathers aren’t necessary, usually ends up in their 30s as a childless career woman or they end up dating weak men who take on a more submissive role. This is why there is a huge exodus of men who are seeking out wives who are from places like Asia, Latin America, and Eastern Europe where the women are more submissive and feminine. However, due to the rising cost of living in the west, many American men are warming up to the idea of women seeking out careers and practicing more independence to alleviate their own financial stress.

5. Sex and money are still the main motivators for marriage and divorce: People get married because they enjoy eachother’s company (sex) and/or one of the partners is a good financial provider. Conversely, these are also the same reasons why people divorce! When the sex begins to get boring, one of the partners fails to maintain their physical attractiveness, or the income-earning partner loses his/her job, the chances of divorce skyrocket! sex and finances are the two most important things in a relationship.

6 Men need to shut up and just listen!: When women come to men with their problems, men will often interrupt with suggestions on how to fix the issue, the woman will then become annoyed and stop talking all together at the surprise of the man. However, what women fail to realize is that men have “mechanical” brains. Due to our evolutionary role as “providers” and “builders”, men sometimes fail to see the emotional rationals behind a woman’s speech. Sometimes women just want to vent without receiving a “Self-help” pep-talk in return.

7. Men show their love in more basic ways: Women often dream of the man who plays guitar, writes poetry, or does grandiose romantic gestures. While men sometimes perform these acts, especially during the early stages of dating, men are a bit more practical in the ways they show love. As Steve Harvey often says, “Men show their love with the three “P’s”, – Profess. Provide. Protect”. Men will honor their women by publicly professing, “This is my woman!”, they will provide for her by earning a good income for the household, and they protect her by scaring off any would-be creeps who would try to hit on her or make advances towards her.

8. Women care more about kissing than intercourse: While women enjoy the sexual act of intercourse, many women will admit that love-making without kissing makes them feel “dirty” or “used”. For a woman, kissing is the ultimate expression of love. When a man kisses a woman without sex, it shows that he craves her soul, not just her vagina. Many women have admitted to me that they would be more angry at a cheating spouse for passionately kissing another woman than they would be if he simply had intercourse with another woman without kissing being involved, since men often compartmentalize their sexual actions in terms of love and pleasure.

9. Why do men and women cheat? With social media making it easier to stay connected with ex-lovers and pretty much anyone we meet on the street, cheating has become easier now than any other time in history. It is also easier to get caught thanks to the “screenshot” option used on our phones. While men have had mistresses since the dawn of time, it was an act that was done discreetly and was associated with shame if caught. Now, it has become also an expectation that you will not be the only person someone is sleeping with. Men tend to cheat based purely on novelty. They get bored having sex with the same partner everyday, and seek out new lands to conquer. They may be completely in love with their wives or girlfriends, but they seek out the excitement of a new body to explore. It is purely a physical thing. Women on the other hand, usually cheat when they feel emotionally neglected by their spouse. Their affairs begin with an emotional fling that later becomes physical. This is why society is harder on women who cheat because of the common held belief that women cheat with their hearts, while men cheat with their penis.

10. Love is held together by three chemicals: Serotonin and Dopamine are released anytime you see a beautiful woman, anytime you kiss you someone, anytime you have an orgasm. These chemicals activate the pleasure centers in your brain, essentially turning you into a drug-addict, craving more and more. As you continue to repeatedly kiss, have sex, and spend time with this person, another hormone slowly begins to produce. “Oxytocin”, aka ” The love chemical”. Oxytocin is responsible for the feelings of “attachment”. When you break up with your spouse, or they die, you go through a withdrawal of oxytocin, dopamine, and seratonin, which is quite painful. Without oxytocin, your mom, your father, your brother, your wife, they would mean nothing to you. Attachments would be almost impossible to form with them. Like most things in life. everything is created upon “habit”. Relationships are no different. They do not form in one day, they are created through imprinted repetition. And before you know it, you are thinking about this person everyday without realizing how it happened! Thanks to serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin, this person who was once a stranger, is now constantly on your mind! This can be a good thing or a bad thing, depending on how the relationship unfolds. It is great for the happily married, but not so great when a break-up occurs, which can take months or even years to recover from emotionally and physically.

11. STDs are more common than you think: 70% of people over the age of 40 in the USA have some form of herpes, while many don’t even know they have it. In fact, it is so common that many doctors don’t even test for it anymore. In terms of race, African-American Americans have the highest percentages of STDs, followed by Caucausians (whites), then Latinos, and with Asians having the lowest percentages of STD rates. No matter what the race is of your partner, before engaging in sex, it is important to discuss this topic with your partner. “Are you clean?”, if the person knowingly has a disease and lies about it, that person could face legal actions. Medically time-stamped records will show when a person was diagnosed. If your partner was diagnosed with HIV in 2006, and they told you they were clean in 2007, then that person has essentially committed a criminal act against your health! If you are positive for an STD, be sure to be completely honest with your partner. They will respect you much more for it.

12. Child support: No matter what form of birth-control you use, there is also a 1% chance it could fail. A good rule of thumb is to never have sex with someone who you couldn’t imagine being the parent of your child. 60% of marriages in USA end in divorce. If you are a man, that means you will probably be paying child support, which means that half of your check will be confiscated for the next 18-20 years. How does that ramen noodle dinner taste? Being unable to pay child support payments can result in losing your drivers license and/or being sent to prison. It is no laughing matter.

13. Rape and false-allegations of rape: Before letting a potential partner come to your house, or you go to their house, be sure to spend a lot of time meeting up at public places, talking on the phone, and truly building a foundation of trust. Men are very much sexually motivated when it comes to dating. Any hint you give them in regards to having sex, they will most likely not turn it down. However, men should know the difference between consent and non-consent. If a woman says, “No! I’m not ready’, that means “Take your hands off!”. It’s that simple. Some men do not understand this. However, there are some women who engage in consensual sex with a man and then latter regret it. In order to save face, they may cry “rape”. There have been many famous cases regarding false-rape allegations that have destroyed the lives of innocent men. Having casual sex is very dangerous for both men and women for this reason among many others listed.

Relationships can be a lot of fun. Traveling together, hanging out, having companionship, enjoying sexual chemistry. However, it also requires much sacrifice and taking responsibility. Sex is an act designed by nature to create life. It is pleasurable. The pleasure behind sex encourages our species to multiply. Sex was not designed to be a toy. It is a way to create bonding between two people as a secondary benefit, and to create life as a primary benefit. Sex and relationships are no laughing matter. When they work out, they create wonderful memories full of life and joy. When they don’t work out, they can literally ruin the emotional, physical, and financial health of those involved. Love should not be shunned, but it should also not be taken lightly.

 

How to Find Your Soul Mate: 10 Tips for Women

Although my writing usually focuses on subjects like leadership, I felt a strong push to proceed in a different direction. Why? Finding a soul mate is a hot topic, and in short, it pains me to see women suffer and/or wreak havoc needlessly. For that purpose, this article reveals ten tips to carefully consider. They’re certain to shift your thinking, challenge your behavior, and provide insight to help you gain the right mate.

10 Tips

1. Stop Looking.

A man is supposed to find you, not vice versa. When you go looking, everything gets screwed up because it is not how God ordered it. God positions you for the person He has chosen. So, stop the hunt; you’re not designed to be the hunter. Go back to the book of Genesis. God prepared the Garden first. Then, He created man. Woman came next and afterwards children.

2. Change Your Words.

Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof (Proverbs 18:21). Make up your mind. You can speak life over the situation or you can speak death. But, you can’t keep speaking the wrong thing and expect something good to come of it. You will have what you say.

What things do you need to refrain from saying? Nobody loves me. I’ll never get married. I always end up with the wrong person. These are just a few examples. Still, a word to the wise is sufficient: If in doubt, say nothing.

3. Change Your Mindset.

First, you’re waiting for your partner, not a flunky or a subordinate. What I miss most about being married (my husband died suddenly over 10 years ago) is partnership. Second, you’re not waiting for someone to complete you. You are already complete. God made you whole, not half. Third, you’re not waiting for someone to make you happy. Happiness comes from within.

4. Get Your House in Order.

Prepare for your mate. Did you notice that I said prepare, not wait? Spend time in the Word; unleash the baggage; get your finances in order; delve into your vocation; pursue your passion. Don’t sit on the sideline. Ruth was working when Boaz noticed her.

Finally, if you’re a single-mother, keep first things first. The focus needs to be your children, not searching for a mate. They were entrusted to you; therefore, give them your best.

5. Leave Something to the Imagination.

Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to walk around nearly naked to attract a man. In fact, leave something to the imagination. You are not on display. Equally important, less is not more! As my mother used to say, “Keep it covered.”

6. Stop Comparing Yourself to Others.

God has someone special for you, so stop comparing yourself to others. Also, don’t covet someone else’s husband. Remember, sowing and reaping. You will get what you give. Anyway, why inherit someone else’s headache?

7. Be Clear About What You Want.

What qualities do you desire in your mate? Write your list and check it twice. It’s not enough to say I want a man or I want a husband. You’ll get just that, any man.

8. Ask for What You Want.

After you’ve written your list and checked it twice, present it to God in prayer. Every good and perfect gift is from above (James 1:17).

9. Don’t bend to the pressure of time.

If you want God’s best, stop watching the clock. Moreover, stop telling others you’re running out of time. He can change things in an instant. Besides, the Bible says that your latter will be greater than your former (Job 8:7).

10. Be anxious for nothing.

Remember, desperation is a dangerous perfume to wear. So, don’t assume that every man you meet is your future husband. And, don’t try to turn him into your husband. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde created Frankenstein. Likewise, you could end up with a monster that’s hard to get rid of.

 

3 Reasons Why You Will Not Get Married This Year

So you’ve hatched a plan: this is the year you will get married and nothing’s going to get in the way. Well what if I told you, you will not get married this year… Eek!

You say you’re totally and completely ready to get married, this is your time, and this is your year! In your enthusiasm to get married, you’ve got the tried and tested strategy in place. You’ve spoken to friends and family to find suitable matches for you. You’ve signed up to dating apps and you’re scheduling in as many marriage events as possible… So this is it!

What if I told you your plans are likely to fail? That your strategy is doomed and you can expect to be single for several years from now? Yes I heard your heart break and plummet 100 miles per hour… Thump!

Here’s why you will not get married this year:

1. You have no idea what type of spouse you want

When I ask single Muslims what they’re looking for in a spouse they tell me he or she should be generous, kind, loving and so on. Some even say they want ‘a nice wife’… ‘What’s wrong with that?’ I hear you ask… Well if asked, everyone would describe themselves as generous, kind and loving. So basically you’re describing everyone in the world, single, married or otherwise! Finding your soul mate will be like finding a needle in a haystack… Glup!

Let’s take the word ‘generous’. If you asked singles what it means to be generous they’d say someone who donates money regularly to good causes and they perhaps volunteer for fundraising events. Others might say generosity is the way people speak or think about others and assume the best in everyone.

‘Generous’ means different things to different people and it shows up in many ways in people’s lives. Be more specific-only then you will be able to spot your soulmate in a dense crowd of single Muslims.

2. You don’t leave a good first impression

I’ve seen so many Muslim dating profiles incomplete, misleading or obviously completed in a rush!

I’ve seen brothers’ profiles with one sentence that tell sisters they’re looking for a wife and – and wait for it – they plan to offer themselves as husbands… well I thought that was pretty obvious, Islamically any other type relationship is haraam (not permissible)!

Sisters’ profiles include statements like ‘I don’t want to praise myself, you’ll find out when you get to know me inshaAllah (God willing)’… Is it me or does it sound like she’s got something to hide? These profiles give no information about who they are, what they offer and what plans they have for the future.

If you’re serious about getting married, talk about yourself and your interests. It will give others a way to strike up a conversation with you, unless you’re happy with conversation starters like ‘Hello Gorgeous’ or something just as creepy!

3. You’re interested in someone but you refuse to talk to them!

So you’re single and at a marriage event, you see someone you like and what do you do? You refuse to send a ‘request to meet’?! Confused? So am I!

When I ask why, they tell me ‘I’m waiting for them to send me a request’… How will the other person know you’re interested? Do singles now expect other singles to be mind readers?

What happens when you meet someone you really like and you’re freaking out because they’re the one! What do you do? Do you face the fear and initiate a conversation? Or do you find any and every excuse not to meet them? And yet deep down you’re hoping somehow in some way you will connect with them and get married!

But you overlooked the obvious! They don’t know you’re interested! You may never show up on their radar and now you’re wondering ‘what if?’… Madness right?!

Soon you’ll hear the news your potential Mr or Mrs Right is getting married to someone else. It will hit you like a bombshell… BOOM!… then CRACK… yes, heartbreak. Now you’re left feeling angry and full of regret.

So what else can singles do in order to get married and avoid being on the dating scene for years to come? Do you think a coach guiding them through the process whilst building their courage and confidence will help them get married quicker? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

 

5 Sure Ways to Know If a Girl Likes You

How can you know if a girl likes you? What are some of the signs that will show that she is interested in you? In this article, I want to show you how you can tell that she likes you so that you can make advances, if you are also interested in her.

She Enjoys Touching You
Touch is a sign that can tell you whether a girl likes you or not-you can know if a girl likes you by closely observing how she touches you and how she feels after she has touched you.

If she likes you, she will enjoy touching your arms, she may put her arm around your waist when you compliment her, she may put her arm around your shoulders sometimes, or she may laugh with delight when she hugs you.

Additionally, she may hug you for little things, such as when she is greeting you, telling you an emotional story, or just because “she feels you need a hug.”

Watch Her Body Language

  • She will look at you with a gleam in her eye.
  • She will try to draw close to you whenever you are both in a group of people.
  • Her face, torso, feet, and legs will point towards you most of the time when she is around you.

She Makes Eye Contact A Lot
If she looks at you intently, she is trying to figure out whether you get the signal that she is interested in you and whether she will have to show overt signs for you to become aware of her feelings for you. Additionally, if your face wanders and falls on her face and she tries to maintain eye contact with you, she is definitely interested in you.

Furthermore, if she has a habit of sweeping her eyes over your whole face and then centering her gaze on one spot, such as your lips or your eyes, she is attracted to you and wants to get to know you better.

She Acts Nervously When She Is Around You
If she laughs nervously when you crack a joke, if she fidgets, she looks restless and unsettled, she sweats a lot, her voice quavers when she speaks to you, she breathes heavily and quickly in your presence, or her hands shake when you ask her to pass something on to you, she may like you and you can take your chances to develop a close relationship with her.

Pay Attention To Her Friends
If her close friends know she is interested in you, they might tease her subtly when you are with her, they may give you hints that she likes you, or they may try to find out if you like her.

So, watch them closely to see whether they laugh at you when there is nothing to laugh about or whether they smile in a way that suggests they are hiding something from you, which are all signs they are excited about a possible love affair between the two of you.

Conclusion
Some of the signs that will help you to know if a girl likes you are that she will like touching you, she will express delight when you touch her, she will do her best to draw close to you when she is in your company, and she will be jittery when she is around you.

 

Mature Dating Tips for Men

So, you are 50. You think you are old, but you are not. It’s all about your heart. If your heart is still young, you can’t be old. And young people date, don’t they? So, where should you begin? You may be thinking of calling that high school hot girl. Given below are some tips to help you date after 50.

Look around

Some things are not meant to change. Meeting women is still hard. There are tons of dating sites, but finding the right women is still a job that takes a lot of effort. To get started, you can try the traditional strategies. You can look within your friends circle or you can look for one at work or other gatherings. You will be more likely to find one should people around you come to know that you are looking for a date.

Women outnumber men

Yes, there are more women out there than men. This is good news for you as you can find a women who is also looking for a man to date. Therefore, it’s easier for men to look for a man, but is difficult the other way around. Therefore, you should encourage yourself and be active. You will find one soon.

Google yourself

You may want to Google yourself. If there is some misinformation about yourself on your social media profiles or somewhere else, make sure you correct it as soon as possible. Aside from this, you should be ready to prove that you are not that serial killer who is your namesake. Moreover, make sure you have updated your profile on Facebook.

Dating sites

There are a lot of advantages of using dating websites. Make sure you upload a smiling photo of you on each dating site. A good photo will increase your response rate by up to 40%. Actually, profiles offer icebreakers. Make sure you update your profiles with true information. You can’t win anyone’s heart with lies.

Dress well

Make sure you dress well. You may be a great looking man, but your outfit may be a big turn-off. The problem is that some men just don’t like to shop for clothes. If you don’t know what to choose, you can get help. For instance, you can take a friend with you. Ideally, you may want to spend one full day on our makeover.

Dating is not about mating

You have to keep going. Just like gold miners who have to work hard and move a good deal of rock to look for a couple of nuggets, you may have to date tons of women before finding the right one. So, if you know that a relationship is not working, you should not waste time on her. What you need to do is say sorry to her and then move on. You may even ask her if she has any single friends.

 

Useful Tips on How to Win Any Girl

Love and humanity can make you win everything in this planet. Love is like a vast sky having various clouds of emotions. If you are good-nature and kind, then your kindness will make these clouds burst into rains of eternal blessings.If you want to win her, well, win her heart by love and compassion.

1. Be what you are

Fake things won’t last long in life or even in theory. You have to come up with your natural, innate self. Do not pose what you are not. Be what you are! If you have some defects, mind you, all humans do have flaws- then do not try to hide them to trick your girl. Instead, promise her that you will work hard to change your problems and issues. Truth always wins the race, and one can’t hide his or her actual nature for eternity, no matter how hard a person tries to conceal it.

2. Show the world that you are not lazy

Women just can’t stand lazy and sleazy men. Lazy means failure. You are lagging in money, career, health, enthusiasm, and everything that may count. A lazy man losses all. Show her that you are hard-working and always pushing to the limit, kind of a guy. In my personal experience, a dedicated and hard-working guy is a symbol of sound and robust future for any girl, and thus, he stands an excellent chance to impress her ladylove and be the hero. While a lazy guy is a symbol of some lost kingdom of ashes, a lousy decline, a nightmare fall, and an open weakness.

3. Be Bold in Love

A frank, open, candid yet refined approach is an effective one in dating and impressing potentially available straight girls. The reverse path will lead you nowhere. A shy, hesitant and low-profile approach is disastrous when it comes to girls.

4. Character with humility is a winning formula

If you are a lucky man in your field, enjoying a good reputation and have some substantial financial possessions, then, My Man! You have hit the bull’s eyes.However, such girls, who fall for you, are known as gold diggers. You do not want a gold digger in your life, do you? So better find a real girl with interest in our rather than what you have in your pockets.

For men, winning a girl is as comfortable as the chirping of birds on the trees or singing of a choir on one beautiful day in the church or any regular activity of this hustle bustle of life. If they have fallen in true love; they have already won their goal.

 

Rich Dating Tips for Wealthy Single Men

We’ve all noticed that a man with great wealth will grab an opportunity intimacy, or in any relationship, because he will show off his wealth. When everyone are killed for their money, the rich guys will directly hurt themselves because he always mentioned his wealth in the conversation which he revealed his financial situation to others by implication.

But wait? What do you mean? How could a man’s dating life be affected by his money? Money means he can bring women to beautiful places. That means he can go to the high-end clubs and the best bars. What’s wrong with money? Money itself does not harm anyone’s intimate life. Money will help when used properly. But the fact is that rich people habitually put their value on wealth.

The rich man subconsciously thinks he is valuable instead of judging himself, because his attributes helped him create wealth. It’s never about wealth, but it’s about forgetting that men are themselves who is attracted by women. Her money can’t be evoked and can’t really fall in love with him. In addition, who wants to be “loved” as a bank account? Here’s the antinomy: making money requires a lot of thumbprint that women crave: discipline of determine diligence. I’m sure the women who read this article agree that these characteristics are highly affinity to their boyfriends, partners, or husbands. But when a man talks about his money, his achievements, or his social status, he puts his foot under his feet. Any high quality woman who heard the noise ran to the mountain at once. She soon saw an overly compensated “show off” man who take no account of himself.

What should rich guys do? Start with some funny jokes. Start with entertainment. Forget your achievements. Bury your achievements and your possessions in the deepest part of your heart. When he meets a woman you like, it’s wise to focus on the emotional side rather than show off your wealth. Flaunt will only make her feel that you are a proud as Lucifer idiot, moreover, you can easily be used by bad guys, finally you will not only lose wealth but also love. Because it’s a secret: women are attracted to men, based on his feelings, far beyond his worth.

 

Older Men and Younger Women

There are a lot of older men would love to be in a relationship (married, living with, dating or sleeping with) a woman who is far younger than them. If we think about it, it makes sense as most men are driven firstly by the visual looks of a woman and the sexual motivation, especially those men who are not particularly intelligent or well educated, knowledgeable or skilled.

They do not care about how intelligent, knowledgeable or smart a woman is nor if she has a great sense of humour or personality. They prefer someone who is there for their sexual gratification and they have no chance of interesting an educated or intelligent woman; everything about their needs and requirements is shallow.

Those who end up with this much younger woman have to be able to offer something in return and this is usually comfort, material possessions, financial security, gifts or money. Both have a shallow reason for wanting the other and both are shallow people who do not want any depth of emotion in their dealings with each other

Unfortunately, men realise that it is not easy to get what they want so try to be devious, crafty and dishonest in order to obtain it sometimes and this is why you will get grown men in their sixties going into chat rooms online looking for children to chat up and groom. In their normal every day life they have no chance of finding that child and grooming them unless they are a family member or close friend of the family and even then it would be wrought with problems. The older men who prefer much younger women who are grown up and adult are not quite so selfish or shallow but nevertheless there is a selfishness in expecting something which is very much a one way street.

In the same way that a blind person would be fortunate if they found a sighted person who wanted to settle down with them, a man in his sixties would be fortunate if he finds a woman in her thirties or forties to settle down with him and this is the same whether it is a full time or a part time casual relationship. In fact if it is casual and he is not offering anything serious and long lasting he is even luckier as she could easily get someone younger who is offering more.

Years ago women would look for a sugar daddy, nowadays that term is considered to be old hat. But it still happens and always will because young women realise that they have something to use to gain things and men will always want to enjoy them. There are special dating agencies which are there for the age gap relationships but unless the guy is financially very stable he would not be able to afford to join and use them.

The women are in the minority so can usually join for free and even then there will be far more men to women.

If you are a female looking for a serious, long term full time relationship remember that the guy who is much older may get ill or have physical problems due to his age later, this might mean that you are expected to spend a lot of time with him at home or take care of him as if you are a carer and nurse and he is a patient. A much older man may also find it impossible or difficult to provide a much younger woman with an adequate sex life. Unless a woman is receiving a lot of love or money in return is it worth it for her?

Another thing to think about when you choose a much older person is that they already have a life, probably children, probably a big family and friends, and you are trying to join this and become part of it. Yet those children might be the same age or thereabouts as you, they might not like you or accept you or they may be jealous of you. They may be concerned that their parent dies and leaves the inheritance to you instead of to them.

Women who have never had a real father or family male figure to look up to often turn to older gents for their relationships but this does not mean they are being wise it simply means that they are following a pattern which has been dictated by their emotions and pasts.

To decide purely on age is wrong. There are much older people who are extremely unworldly and immature simply in older bodies. There are people who are younger who are smart, streetwise and also offer the advantage of being agile and fit.

Do the mature guys seek the much younger female because she is financially dependent on them? And nowadays how many women get into a lifestyle choice of being financially dependent on guys? It is not wise and it is not necessary. It is easier to study and pass exams and get a good career than it is to land a wealthy man and make him happy enough that he does not want to dump you. Businessmen and those who have good careers are often put off by women who are also successful or working in a top career, preferring women who are more woolly headed. It makes them feel superior and it gives them a far better chance of getting and keeping the woman.